Bishop Gianfranco Girotti
Priests hearing Confessions need to replace any negative or aggressive attitudes with meekness and mercy toward the penitent, said a Vatican expert on confession.
The sacrament of Reconciliation "has led to a unilateral overemphasis on the accusation and listing of sins," said Bishop Gianfranco Girotti, regent of the Vatican court that handles issues related to the sacrament of Penance.
The end result is that "the thing that is absolutely central when listening to sin, that is, the blessed embrace of the merciful Father, is put on the backburner," he said.
A confessor is first and foremost a father who welcomes, listens and engages in dialogue.