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Lasha Morningstar

Leave a proud legacy by resurrecting your dreams for life

Lasha Morningstar

August 25, 2014

Do you want that to be your legacy? A look of shock and confusion crossed my friend's face. She had just told me of how long she had been at her job. Decades. I asked her how much longer she planned to be there. She said she did not know, that it depended on the machinations of the company.

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Gov't contempt for refugees drives mom to abort her baby

Lasha Morningstar

July 21, 2014

It was hitting 3 a.m. CBC radio kept me company. Half listening, my mind tackled a myriad of mini-problems. The man being interviewed on the radio raised his voice. I started to listen. Impassioned, at times strident, obviously a medical doctor, he told the interviewer the story of a patient. A legitimate refugee from Africa, mother of three children, she was joyfully expecting her fourth wee one.

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You too can make a choice to be happy

Lasha Morningstar

July 7, 2014

The sentence startled me. "You have the right to be happy." I was reading that proclamation somewhere, don't know where or in what context. Probably in the Saturday Globe or a news magazine. But the words sat in the back of my consciousness like a nagging toothache. What is happy? Dogs romping in the dog park. A toddler flying down a slide. An elderly couple walking hand in hand down the sidewalk.

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We need strategies to help cope with the rising cost of living

Lasha Morningstar

June 23, 2014

No, it's not your imagination. Food does cost more. Even pet food brings a "my gosh!" to shoppers' lips. TD-Canada Trust economists predict our food bill will rise eight per cent this year. Utility bills, no matter how much one tries to cut down, climb. And were you sitting down when you opened your city tax bill? If you live in one of the areas where you really got hit, you wonder "How am I going to handle this?"

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Shunning is one form of abuse of power

Lasha Morningstar

June 9, 2014

Shunning is a rather arcane word. History and religious studies students come across it when studying groups such as the Amish. Strict, living their lives according to set rules, they shun any one of the group who leaves or breaks one of their cardinal edicts. Ignore them. Do not speak to them. Shunning hurts and it is alive and well in offices, schools, neighbourhoods, families. All of a sudden you are invisible to former friends, fellow workers, classmates, members of charity groups, family members.

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Some lost sheep remain long ignored, but never forgotten

Lasha Morningstar

May 26, 2014

Missing. It's a word that strikes terror in the heart. Certainly there are the minor gulps in the throat – missing car keys, missing wallet, a missing library book (and when you do find it, the dog has chewed the corner of it). Then there is the muttered prayer to St. Anthony, "Tony, Tony, listen, listen, hurry, hurry. Something is missing." But the missing that stops the heart is when a person or pet disappears.

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Fear and trembling on the perilous daily drive to work

Lasha Morningstar

May 12, 2014

Give me a brake. Here it is – 6 in the morning and I am driving along 111th Avenue. Out of the corner of my eye I see several dark figures on the street. If I keep going at my proper (legal) speed, I'll have several bodies as hood ornaments. So I slow down and lean on the horn. They are crossing against the light on their way to their jobs at the Royal Alexandra Hospital. They don't pick up their pace, just keep on sashaying along, some turning to look at me with blank faces.

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Life's elusive quest for moments of joy

Lasha Morningstar

April 28, 2014

One is almost afraid to say the word out loud for fear of hexing it. Spring. One day, the weather forecaster is forecasting snow and complaining when his news buddies harass him when no flakes flutter down from the sky. A few days later, record highs are being celebrated. Oops. Spoke too soon. The mercury is dropping, and we are back to ice-on-the-puddles again and snow in the forecast.

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Caging criminals is rarely a good solution

Lasha Morningstar

April 14, 2014

Chances are you will eat your dinner when you want. Go to bed when you want. Go out the door when you want. Inmates can't. So why should we care? They broke a law, maybe many laws. They deserve to be there. Really?

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My Lenten war on black angel of fear

Lasha Morningstar

March 31, 2014

The question "What did you give up for Lent?" makes its rounds during many conversations right now. The usual answers came fast and furious. "Coffee." "Chocolate." "Butter." "Wine." Some cheer at the amount of weight they will lose during this religious season. Others acknowledge it as a test of their willpower. For many, it's a witness to their faith.

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